Growing up I was always fascinated with nudism.
I would play games with the other kids where we would run around nude.
I remember one friend who had a pool and we would swim in it nude. His
mom told on me and I got into trouble.
My folks were very modest. You didn't even talk about the body, much less show it.
In college I was able to get away several
times by myself and go to a stream in the woods. This was really my
first experience with nudism. I would love walking into the forest far
away from everything else and swim naked in the stream. I felt like
such a part of nature when I did.
Well, time went by and I got married and four
kids came along. I always assumed that my wife would be opposed to the
idea of naturism. One day when we were at the ocean she mentioned how
much she would like to go skinny dipping with me. That was all it took
to plant the seed in my mind.
I still didn't know of any naturist groups,
clubs or beaches, much less any people who practiced naturism! Any of
my friends who might have practiced naturism, never told me. So I
turned to the internet.
From my search I found the closest nude beach
to us was Assateague. I didn't know how active Assateague was but from
what I read on the internet, there weren't large crowds visiting there.
In addition, the nude beach is a good walk north from the area where
you can
park. One Saturday my family wanted to spend the day at the ocean, and
with my kid's interest in horses, and Assateague being a wild pony
sanctuary, I thought we would make the day trip there. After a three
hour drive we set up shop on the beach in front of the bath house and I
took a walk north to find out how active the nude beach really was.
Well there weren't a lot of people on it. It
was very sparse. But as soon as I came into the nude territory, off
came my suit, and I went for a nice long walk and swim. What freedom!
The ocean water never felt so good! After I returned to our umbrella
(and reluctantly putting my bathing suit back on) I told my wife about
the nude beach.
Later that afternoon she took the walk north
and I watched the kids. We really didn't talk a lot about it until we
were driving home. I told her that I really wanted to visit one day
with just her. I thought that she would balk at the idea (you know - "I
really didn't mean that I wanted to go skinny dipping on a nude beach
where everyone can see me!"), but she didn't! She had
commented to me several times previously about her stretch marks from
having kids and I thought this might stop her. I was completely
surprised by her enthusiasm.
We found a date when we could get a baby
sitter and we took off for the beach. Because of the walk, we took the
suggestion of some of the previous Assateaguers and brought a back
pack. For the whole walk up the beach I kept thinking "are we going to
chicken out or are we really going to go through with this?" When we
found a nice place to put out our blanket I couldn't even blink before
my wife was nude. I quickly undressed and we both spent one of the
most beautiful days of our lives together; there on the ocean,
swimming, enjoying the sun and sand, and each other's company. The
hardest part was leaving.
On the way home we discussed our experience
and decided that we would find a c/o vacation
place somewhere in the Bahamas and spend an extended period of time.
This time my wife did the research, with some internet help from me and
some advice from her travel agent sister (who seemed puzzled by our
final choice of destination, but did not bring it up). To this day she
probably wonders why we went there. We booked four days in February at
Cat Island. There were only 8 or so other couples on about 300 acres.
We really had the time of our lives. The most amazing thing to us was
the immediate bonding with these other people (some of whom we still
keep in contact with) in spite of the vast differences in every other
aspect of our lives. We had a retired couple from Germany, a computer
salesman and his wife from Washington State, teachers from Colorado,
students from Pennsylvania, an
engineer from Florida, as well as several others with whom we did not
discuss occupation. Right away we were not only accepted, but invited
to socials by the pool, dinner, etc. Now we were hooked.
Once again, the only problem with Cat Island
was that we had to leave. Since our trip was so short, we decided to
make other plans for the spring. We didn't have a lot of money left, so
we booked a B&B in New Jersey and spent the weekend at Sandy Hook.
Quite a different crowd, but still just as friendly.
There are two great things about this
lifestyle. First is the personal freedom we can experience. Second is
the truly great people we can experience it with.
Bob in MD
When I was just a little less than 5 years old,
I went up like a Roman Candle. There I was, sitting in the living room
watching Saturday morning cartoons...minding my own business when I
suddenly caught on fire.
Unfortunately I had never learned the "stop, drop
and roll" method of dousing flames. I jumped up and ran around the
house which only served to make the pajamas burn more. My mom and dad
were a bit more with it and grabbed a blanket and smothered the flames,
but not
before I had been burned over 50% of my body. 40% were 3rd degree burns.
In a society that rewards, admires and worships
perfection I was suddenly hideously flawed, with horrible scars
everywhere. To say I was self conscious would be to say that Haagen
Daas is just ice cream.
Over the years I learned to hide those scars to
avoid the usual "Eewwwww, what happened to you??? How gross." But I did
not learn how to accept those scars and even showering in gym class
became a humiliating and often convoluted process to avoid as many eyes
seeing
those scars as possible. I had more long sleeved shirts than Washington
D.C. has politicians.
The irony of all of this is that I fell in love
with and married a man that hasn't got an ounce of
self consciousness in him and loves to commune with nature naturally.
After much prodding and cajoling I finally let him see me nude. But no
one else. If we were nude out in
nature we were nude out in nature so far from another human being that
I felt safe from prying eyes. This continued for over 17 years. He
wanted to experience social nudism at landed clubs and resorts. I could
accept that *he*
accepted my body, but I couldn't accept that anyone who didn't know me
would be so accepting. Heck, I knew me and I didn't accept it! The
harder he pushed, the more resistant I became. No way would I be
comfortable nude in a social situation. So, I stayed a closet nudist,
literally.
Well, a big awakening for me took place about 5
years ago. I won't go into details, but I suddenly realized that I was
who I was and I had spent far too many years thinking that since I
wasn't perfect, flawless, beautiful no one would really give me a
chance to demonstrate I was so many other great things. <G>
What modesty! And so, while living in Australia, I went nude
around others for the first time...in the outback on a camping trip
with close friends. They weren't grossed out...that was a good sign! I
was able to take my clothes off and feel comfortable around them and
enjoy the beauty of nature naturally. It was a heady experience.
But attending a nudist resort for the first time
was actually an act of defiance on my part. I did
it to prove to my husband that he was wrong...that people might accept
different shapes and sizes without question at a nudist place, but they
certainly wouldn't accept someone with hideous scars. So while we were
living in Texas I finally agreed to go. I was scared to death but also
dead set on proving my point. I was convinced that there was a limit to
how accepting nudists were of a flawed form.
Well, the joke was on me. When we arrived, I
stripped without hesitation, a few butterflies
fluttering in my stomach, but so determined to prove my point that I
didn't waiver. No one even glanced twice at the scars, they just seemed
to accept me for me, body and all! I was amazed. All these strangers
accepted me and my body! And then the most amazing thing happened.
After 30+ years of not accepting my own body, suddenly my own body
acceptance flooded through me in huge waves. I finally
learned that my body is my temple to my soul and as perfect and
flawless for me as anyone else's is for them. It was the greatest gift
that I had ever received and one I treasure to this day.
Mary L in New Hampshire
I too worried about my scars from numerous stomach surgeries. In my twelve years of enjoying
nudism, however, no one has mentioned them or stared at me.
Smiles, Pam
Last night, after I came home from work, we all
had dinner out on the deck. It was a little after 8:00 PM when we
finished. I decided to take advantage of the hot tub since it was a
little cooler than most summer nights. Anyway, I stripped and got in,
soon followed by my three year old son (who has no problems with being
nude).
About ten minutes later my nine year old daughter
came down from the deck to the patio (where the hot tub is) eating
cookies. She asked if she could join us. Up to this time they (my three
girls) had insisted on wearing bathing suits in the water. I assumed
that she would do the same this time. I said sure, but no cookies in
the tub!
Well, to my surprise, she immediately took off her
clothes and got in the tub. And shortly
thereafter her other two sisters did the same. We all had a wonderful
time. I'm still left scratching my head and wondering what caused the
change. Go figure!
Bob in MD
My husband has been a nudist forever
Our daughter, 17, began being comfortable with
home nudity about a year ago, but had no desire to try a nudist
activity with us until just recently. We took her to Cedar Waters
Village, the nearest nudist resort. For the first ten minutes she was
nervous. Once she realized, however, that no one was staring, laughing
or pointing a finger, she relaxed and spent the afternoon with us
having fun.
It was a wonderful thing to see and to experience
that moment with her, when she really accepted her body as her own.
Body image is so important to women, way too important at times, and I
wish others her age could realize the wonderfully liberating experience
of body acceptance.
Mary L in New Hampshire
Although I had always known that I liked to go
without clothes, it was not until after my divorce
that I actually tried social nudism. While married, I wanted to go to a
nude beach, but my ex wouldn't hear of it. She had body image problems
(Where have we heard that before?) and being a devoted husband, I
wouldn't go without her.
When we separated, the first thing I did was visit
a nude beach. I had thought that, perhaps once my curiosity was
satisfied, that would be the end of it. On my way home after that first
day at the beach, I knew that I was hooked! The people were so nice and
it was a delight to
know that I was not the only one who liked to be naked outdoors.
When I gravitated to the clubs, I developed an
entire new circle of friends, and I credit social nudism for being a
big part of my healing process, which one must go through after a
divorce.
I found that being active in my club was
rewarding, and soon it was suggested that I run for the regional board,
which I did. After serving three years on it, I was elected president
of the region, where I served for four more years. It was all quite
amazing to me, since I had started out as a newcomer on a nude beach
some years earlier.
Bob B.
I have been a naturist all my life. I practiced
nudism only in my home for many years. I found out, only recently, that
there are many resorts, camps, and non-landed clubs here in Florida. I
have spent over two months on the internet looking for something. I
wasn't sure what.
I have been a disabled vet for over 24 years. I
have been through at least one million dollars in tests, meds, and
supplies. I'm just guessing at the cost, of course, but that gives you
an idea what has been done to me.
I have been a religious person for many years, not
too religious, just an average christian. The good Lord has provided me
with two fine kids. I have been raising them pretty much on my own for
the last 14 years. I turned my life to raising them the best I could,
as a single parent, forgetting about me and my needs, wants, desires,
etc. My kids are now 20 & 16. They have their own lives to live and
don't want advice from dad. Typical teenagers!!
When God found a way for me to get a computer, a
whole new world opened for me. I have spent the last three years mostly
in a hospital bed at home, so naturally, this was a major blessing.
There is a lot of TRASH on the internet, but I also found things I
never dreamed about.
That's when I found out about nudism/naturism on
the web. I have learned so much via this
new-found wealth of information. So I started reading the bible,
praying about this lifestyle, and learning what GOD can do for me. One
of the first web pages I found was about The Bible Society and Nudity.
I then found The Christian Naturist page. Here I learned that the
church I grew up in, Wesleyan Methodist, now Wesleyan, had practiced
nudism in baptisms in the past. WOW, what a shock. MY CHURCH DID THAT!!
No way I thought. But sure enough, it was true.
So I started asking family about this. It turned out what I had read
was very true.
I decided to check out a non-landed club first as
they do more things in other's homes. I found that hey, these were just
ordinary people, with ordinary jobs and lives. The only difference was
the family wanted to be nude. Kids especially wanted and liked to be
free from clothes. Boy, do I remember those days. We lived in the
country. No running water in the house, just an old hand
pump. When we took bathes, it was outside in an old wash tub. We never
thought about being nude. It was the way we were raised.
Well anyway, yesterday, the VA really had me
messed up with those shock treatments on my legs, so I went to Lake
Como. My first time ever to a resort. I picked this place, after a
number of people recommended it to me. I didn't know what to expect! I
was afraid, nervous, unsure if I were doing the right thing. When I got
there, I was welcomed with open arms. No one worried about me being in
a wheel chair, or that I had an indwelling catheter. It was hot but I
felt so comfortable. I removed my clothes in the parking lot before
checking the place out.
After finding out I could get most anywhere I
wanted to go, I paid for the day, and spent the
rest of the day relaxing. There were kids, teenagers, young adults, mid
40's (my age), and grandparents, all enjoying a normal time on
vacation, or living there naturally all the time. It was better than
going to Disney World, really. I was treated like any other person, and
the group was very friendly, and no one even thought about being nude.
There were NO problems, as far as the kids were concerned. We all had a
great time visiting others, just like your neighbors at home, only we
were all nude. I have found that this club, is a very family oriented
club, and they protect their children and grandchildren from anyone
they feel might want to hurt them. I spent about seven hours there, and
really didn't want to leave. I can't wait to go back.
I'm sorry this turned into a book, but after yesterday, I will wholeheartedly support this way of
life.
Yours in Christ, Dave
My name is Beth. I am 51, divorced and live in
Alberta,Canada. I am the proud mom of a 23 year old non-nudist son. He
just figures he didn't raise me right!
This is how nudism is important to me and how I became involved in it, so here goes.
As I reflect back over the years, I guess my
earliest memory of enjoying the warmth of the sun caressing my just
budding adolescent body were the years of privilege I spent at summer
camp in Algonquin Park,Ontario.
I was 10 when I first left home for a month in
1956. I had just begun puberty and had, like most girls of that age,
reached my full height of 5'4". I was also having my period. I was
scared, homesick and just becoming aware of the feelings of sexuality.
On top of all this, I was in the BUNNY section with the little kids.
As a way to get away from the other campers and
the organized programs, (my favorites then and now being
arts/crafts,canoeing and horseback riding) I would, in my free time, go
for walks in the beautiful forest.
With the soothing smell of the pines and clear
blue waters below magnificent cliffs, I soon found a spot close enough
to hear the camp bells for meals, but far enough to be one with the
forest. I made a bed of fern, stripped and just enjoyed the solitude
with the sun's warmth.
I have always been a loner, I think from shyness
and fear that others wouldn't like me. I attended all the teen parties
at home but was always the girl boys confided their problems with other
girls to: the good listener. I of course wanted to be that other girl,
so the freedom at summer camp, to be quiet in the warm breezes of
summer, was a delight. I of course never thought of it as stress
releasing but rather, as something naughty.
I did not become involved in our lifechoice again
until moving to Vancouver in 87. I lived over the years in Canadian
cities that had nudist clubs. Unfortunately, unless one knew a nudist,
one never knew about those clubs. If I had known, I would have raised
my son in this healthy environment. We knew nudists would never tell
anyone they were a nudist because we thought our parents, friends and
employers would say we were sick.
I am so glad the times are a changing. As the
former WCANR/WOC liaison person and a Wreck Beach board member, I am
very proud to be promoting our lifestyle, which is definitely not
regarded as naughty to most tactile people, but as a freedom to be who,
not what, you are.
Naturally Yours, Elizabeth in Alberta, Canada
When I was a youngster, my father ran a boys' summer
camp and once a week we had "scrub". Everyone went to the lake with
only a bar of soap and washed. I did not like going to the lake and
often tried to skip swims (bathing suit or not) because I was afraid of
the water.
A few years after graduating from college I joined the
YMCA. My fear of the water had long gone -- I could swim and often went
swimming there. At that time the requirement was nylon suits or no
suits. I quickly discovered that "no suit" was really more comfortable.
Unfortunately the policy changed when the Y went coed and a bathing
suit was required. I enjoyed skinning dipping but did not want to do it
alone as it was unsafe.
A few summers ago I looked at a newspaper that listed
nude beaches in New England and discovered there was a resort about an
hour's drive from my house. I called them and received a nice brochure
and letter stating singles were welcome. I went there, shed my clothes,
and was given a tour of the resort. The place was clean, everyone was
friendly, there was a lake to swim in, and a nice beach
for sunning without a wet bathing suit! I especially enjoyed being able
to go outside in the sunshine and fresh air to dry off from the shower
I took before dressing to go home.
Since then I joined a number of nudist groups. There is a
group that meets in the winter not far from my home, so skinny dipping
is not just a summer activity.
One day I went with a small group on a canude trip. We
stopped for lunch at an area that we thought would be a good place to
eat and swim. As we were eating, a car pulled up and shortly thereafter
a woman appeared on the rock we were using. We quickly covered up. The
leader of the trip spoke to the woman and explained that we were
planning a swim after lunch and she said she did not see any problem
with us swimming while she read her book.
Since I became a nudist I have made a lot of friends and
feel better about myself. I told my family that I was a nudist -- My
mother did not say much, one of my sisters kind of accepted it and my
other sister got all excited -- she thought it was great.
Geo W. in MA. Be Bare Too
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Beach Nudity, Please Read!
There's something liberating about the antic of being naked. The
freedom. The exhilaration. The lack of pocket lint. Unfortunately, for
most people the notion of nudity requires some rationale - no matter how
silly that rationale may be. Streaking across a football field.
Skinny-dipping in a lake. Mooning for the camera. Photocopying your
butt. Playing naked Twister. Flashing a nun after sixth-period class,
hoping she didn't recognize you and isn't at this instant phoning your
parents. For most people, it's all about the naughty thrill of getting
caught or exposing a private part. But not for all. No, for many it's
perfectly routine, as normal and natural as, say, kissing hands or shaking
a baby.
Nude beaches are the perfect denominators for these two groups, the
puritans and the pure exhibitionists, the fakirs and the non-fakers. Think
of it as a big game of strip poker where everybody has crappy hands. The
thing to remember is that nude sunbathing isn't about sex or exhibitionism
- we'll leave that to the nudist colonies and Courtney Love. Nude
sunbathing is about elation and free-spiritedness (and avoiding wedgies
and ugly tan lines).
I've made the trek to No Clothes Land many a time. I've dropped trou in
Europe, where it's no big deal - heck, even the Royal Family has displayed
a boob or two (not counting Prince Charles). Black's Beach in San Diego
is world famous for nude sun worshipping. And, of course, here in Miami,
we have Haulover Beach.
One of the misconceptions about nudity is that every human body is
beautiful (Right). The key to inoffensive nude sunbathing is to do just
that - sunbathe. Do not play volleyball in the buff. No grilling or
barbecuing. Even if your Playgirl's Mr. January, do not perform an oil
and air filter change on your auto while naked. An watch the jogging -
you could poke somebody's eye out.
Nude beachgoers often have their social cliques and routines. They picnic
and fraternize, and they love to mingle. Zoiks. These people who sashay
up and down the beach wearing nothing but a smile and a spare tire are the
same folks you find in the receiving line at a wedding wielding a business
card and a can of Binaca.
When I venture to Haulover, I stick close to my blanket or hit the water.
I don’t wander about. It’s like you want to work the room, but there’s
no place to put your hands and no appropriate place to hang your Walkman.
(Plus, you feel like you’ve gone to a party and everyone’s wearing the
same thing.) Personally, I happen to like being naked. It’s never
bothered me. I often get home from work, disrobe, and sit naked on my
couch eating cereal. (Did I just cross the line of too much information?)
Some people are uncomfortable naked. I’m not. What I do have a problem
with, however, is being ugly and naked. Statistics show that the number
of people who enjoy nude sunbathing is proportionate to those who should
put something on. Like a tarp. Or one of those tents that they use when
they’re debugging a house. That one of the reasons why I prefer the
sanctity of my blanket. I can feign sleep (or death, if necessary) should
some naked old man approach me and start to discuss today’s undertow as he
squats liberally in front of me.
Sunscreen: I’d be remiss if I didn’t stress the importance of proper
protection. Those regions that rarely see the light of day are the first
to succumb to the sun’s deadly rays. Hence, watch your behind, or your
buns will be toast. As for – how do I say this politely – garnishing your
weenie, yes, your little buddy needs sunblock, but remember, you’re in
public. There a fine line between safety and pleasure when applying
lotion to Mr. Happy. I’ve seen guys go at it like they’re greasing a fire
pole. So take it easy. Don't make things hard on yourself.
When it comes to accessories, there are certain things you should and
should not bring to a nude beach. Telescopes and binoculars are definite
no-nos. You may think of this as a ball game, but I’m sure the Red Sox
would beg to differ. Likewise with a camcorder – carrying a video camera
at a nude beach is the pervert’s equivalent of driving by a schoolyard
with a van full of candy. As for ready, avoid books with titles like
Justice of the Piece. Stick to Field and Stream, Reader’s Digest or the
Gideon Bible. Sunglasses are a must. If you’re gonna ogle, at least do
it behind your Maui Jims.
As for your random beach bump-ins, there are obvious encounters. Besides
bodies that you’d rather not see naked, piercings are immensely popular.
Popular, I surmise, because they’re in places that wouldn’t necessarily
be exposed at Publix (unless you shop at the new one by the bay). I’ve
seen nipples that look like parachute rip cords.
And below the belt, I’ve seen piercings that made me recoil. (Come to
think of it, I’ve seen coils down there, too.) And little napkin rings.
And something called a Prince Albert. I’ve seen less metal at a gun
show. And shaving. Hmmmm. Apparently trimming the hedges has become all
the rage. Some folks go for the close cropping; others like it smooth. I
haven’t seen topiary this creative since I was at the Botanical Gardens.
Nude sunbathing can be a kick, an exciting way to liven up an otherwise
dull day at the beach. For the ladies, it means being able to wear a
sundress without worrying about unsightly strap lines. For the guys, it
means there’s no need to adjust the boys: it’s a wind sock now. For all
of us it means an escape, a break from our daily worries and cares, a
moment’s freedom where less is so much more – except when it comes to that
sunscreen.